I am a man, a feminist, and a communist. Misogyny turns me on. I love to
imagine my deeply held beliefs being forcefully violated. These
fantasies go beyond the healthy and sanitized power exchange of BDSM to
extremes that ought only ever exist as stories. I'm not ashamed of my
kink, but it can be a difficult line to tread. I've been writing erotic
fiction and essays under the name Sinful Syllables for 10 years.
Most
numerous and edifying are the women who enjoy my work. Often they've
struggled with that same internal contradiction I have: how can you be a
Good Feminist™ when the idea of women being
inherently inferior turns you on? It's a struggle compounded by the
culture of MaleDom/femsub spaces where it's not always clear where role
playing ends and a person's true beliefs begin. It's a space filled with
abusers masquerading as kinksters. That I've been able to serve these
women by satisfying their kink without threatening their ethics makes me
think the work is worth doing.
Then there are the men who take
my fantasy misogyny as support for their factual misogyny. It's because
of them that I write posts like this one. I'd rather err on the side of
being a turnoff than unwittingly feed into the delusions of a fragile
and dangerous man. I believe wholeheartedly in the essential nature of
continuously enthusiastic consent between partners. I practice Risk
Assessed Consensual Kink. I'll do my best to turn you on, and if going
out of character to remind you that everything I'm writing is a fiction
kills the mood for you, then sorry not sorry.
Saturday, January 26, 2019
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